Thursday, May 15, 2014

Compassion


Word of the day – Compassion – what does it mean/examples from a faith perspective, how do I show it and how does this make me a better person and the world a better place to live?

I always like to start with definitions – from the Merriam Webster Dictionary @ http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/compassion

Compassion noun \kəm-ˈpa-shən\  
  • a feeling of wanting to help someone who is sick, hungry, in trouble, etc., 
  • sympathetic
  • consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it
Examples of compassion – I will cite the corporeal and spiritual works of mercy from the Catholic Faith Tradition. We start with the greatest commandment – Love God and Love Your Neighbor. Extending this notion of love to mercy in action – the corporeal and spiritual works of mercy are rooted in the bible in both the Good Samaritan parable (Luke 10:25-37) and the gospel of Matthew Chapter 25 concerning the Last Judgment.

The corporal works of mercy is as follows:
  • To feed the hungry;
  • To give drink to the thirsty;
  • To clothe the naked;
  • To shelter the homeless;
  • To visit the sick;
  • To ransom the captive;
  • To bury the dead.
The spiritual works of mercy is as follows:
  • To instruct the ignorant;
  • To counsel the doubtful;
  • To admonish sinners;
  • To bear wrongs patiently;
  • To forgive offences willingly;
  • To comfort the afflicted;
  • To pray for the living and the dead. 
     Putting it all together – how do I show true compassion and be a better person? First, I realize that God is love and love leads us to mercy. I do not merit God's love; but, I am given God's love freely and abundantly. My response back to God is to love Him back in the best manner I am capable of with all my human faults and frailties.
     I should express compassion, mercy, charity and love to all and especially with those closest to me. I often think many of us can fall into a myth that people like teachers, social workers, nurses and other medical professionals are somehow more compassionate and better people, perhaps even holier. I disagree and so did Bishop Sheen – work is work and charity is charity. When we are compensated for our work that is labor and work has its own rewards. This does not mean that people who have jobs where the corporeal and spiritual works of mercy are part of the required work are not doing good work. Charity, love, compassion, mercy is spiritual and holy and operates in a different realm than a job description. Compassion, charity and love comes from God and needs to be given in the same manner as God gives.
    Can I be compassionate outside of a belief in God? Yes, certainly and compassion is practiced daily in homes and at work and all kinds of public places by many on a daily basis. When others are compassionate to us we receive a blessing and are recharged to become a better human being. Compassion is one of the feelings that makes us a better version of a human being. 

 


  
 

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

ADVENT - A season for waiting in peace, hope, joy, love and a Sunday to rejoice

Today, Sunday, December 1, 2013, marks the beginning of a new liturgical year in the Roman Catholic Church and the beginning of the Advent Season. The spirit of the Liturgy all through Advent is one of expectation and preparation for the feast of Christmas as well as for the second coming of Christ. Advent reminds me that God so loved me, He sent His only son to be my Savior and Lord. Jesus came to this world as a baby and was born like all human beings and was fully human and divine and the world still celebrates some 2000 years later. Whom else is celebrated after 2000 years? On the rapid think, I can think of no other human being. Sure I may read about some historical figure; but, I do not celebrate their birthday or death.

A sign of Advent is the Advent Wreath and Candles. Each candle signals a message that I am in need of and desire to send the same message to the larger world. The candles symbolize - peace, hope, joy and love. Peace, to all the people in war torn lands especially in Syria and the Ukraine. Hope to all in the Philippines devastated from Typhoon Haiyan. Joy to all who are down hearted, depressed and full of grief. Lastly, peace in my heart, peace in my family, peace in my country, peace in the world and peace to all people of goodwill.

At mass today, the first violet candle was lit. Another candle will be lit each Sunday. On Gaudete Sunday, the rose colored candle is lit. Gaudete Sunday (the third Sunday) marks the halfway point of the season. Gaudete is from the Latin and means rejoice. Rejoice in the Lord always; again I say, rejoice. Let your forbearance be known to all, for the Lord is near at hand; have no anxiety about anything, but in all things, by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God. Lord, you have blessed your land; you have turned away the captivity of Jacob. (Philippians 4:4–6; Psalm 85 (84):1). And finally all the candles will be lit. Advent will be nearing completion as the fourth candle and Sunday celebration is completed. Advent will end and the Christmas Season will begin.
 
This year like other years, I intend to celebrate and keep the Advent Season. I want to wait in hope and joy and peace and love. I want to wait patiently while in line shopping or at the gas station or doctor's office. I want to join with all the people who waited for the Messiah and all who still do not know Jesus and are waiting for Him even in their unbelief. I want to wait for Christmas; Christmas will come as God keeps His promises. I need to prepare my heart and home to receive and welcome Jesus. I will celebrate the birth of Jesus and intend to keep Christmas well. To help keep Christmas, I have been giving to the Salvation Army bell ringers. I am thankful for all that I have including that I have some to share. My life this year makes this a real witness to being thankful to God in all things. I have experienced sickness and job loose. I have also been given a great gift of physical and emotional healing. I trust in God, that a new job will also become a reality. 
 
Advent is not just that Christmas will come. It's also a foreboding of really big things that one day I will die and Jesus will receive me and welcome me into a heavenly home. Advent is also a reminder that Christ's second coming will happen. It's a time to reflect on small things like making cookies and candy and to ponder really big things like God's love and eternal life. Celebrate Advent and celebrate all the great Christian Feasts that fall during this period. Take time to prepare and make ready your home and heart. 

When I originally wrote this, I thought this was not very good and stopped writing. I believe people call it writer's block, criticism, not believing in oneself. It's not just about celebrating Advent, life is about celebrating all things great or small. It's about self-acceptance and moving forward and continuing to learn and love.